By Expert..
1. If you show some guts to open up by not hiding behind "anon" - may be some one would have noted your situation and might have assisted you.
2. The moment you don't get a job, you people feel that you are untouchable. If that is what you believe how outsiders can understand you?
3. You are just 23- ( believe me if you can) when I was 45, a mere commerce graduate had two
children - I left the job to move back to my state - but without a job for 1 year. Then I just invented myself - and changed not only the horses but also the entire vehicle - and migrated from accounts to advertising.
4. You have not got GATE, and you are an instrumentation engineer and you got a break in employment and you feel and decided that you have
been fucked up.
5. Did you ever do masturbation? After doing it, did you ever feel guilty of doing it? And after a week you did it and enjoyed it and after its over you feel guilty about it ... it's a unending story.
6. I am afraid you young people should learn lot from Congress party. You can not be a AAP member and still want to survive in this society.
7. There are no Sages or Sri Rama in this society and we are all in a kind of society where we make up ourselves to get our daily bread.
8. The HR manager is cheating telling you in his company - only the real worker will be rewarded;
The management cheating explaining that the sky is the limit for real performer.
The Banker is cheating that they have money to loan you;
The team manager is cheating by telling that all the team members are equal to him. And we - as an individual - are unable to tell simple lie for our own life sake.
We tell lies to our girl friends and to our parents but when it comes to the job, we want to be naked there.
9. Stop telling in resume that you have a break ( not GAP) in employment. So after two days you will believe in your resume. You search some thing - some idea, some clue to cement that "gap". And re write the resume.
10. Do not show your or explain your strengths and weakness etc., Add a good convincing creative covering letter.
11. Being instrumentation engineer - you should look for job titles like " Team manager, assist manager - commercial, or purchase or design or Site Engineer of any trade, or else get back to e commerce ( not a software job)
12. Don't get fucked up by drawing circles and boundaries around you.
13. Have some flexibility and look beyond that instrumentation and GATE.
14. There are half a billion people with out IIT or IIM
or GATE. And they are happy.
15. Do not spend too much time on FB, delete your resume from Linked In.